June 24, 2019

Sarah Haywood’s 5 Favorite Books About Relationships

Story By: Sarah Haywood

Sarah Haywood’s 5 Favorite Books About Relationships

Story By: Sarah Haywood

The books I enjoy reading most, and that stay with me long after turning the last page, are ones that explore the complexity of relationships, whether between family members, friends, roommates or partners. These are some of my favourites that I’ve read in the past year.

Three Things About Elsie by Joanna Cannon

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Joanna Cannon has a wonderful talent for depicting female friendships. This is the story of Florence, who, with the constant presence of her best friend Elsie, sets out on a quest to make sense of events that occurred sixty years earlier.

The novel is exciting, humorous and heartbreakingly touching in equal measures. And I love the unique way that Cannon uses personification of emotions – and even of inanimate objects – to get right to the heart of things.

Educated by Tara Westover

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I’m not a great reader of non-fiction, other than for research purposes, but this memoir drew my attention because of Westover’s incredible personal history. Her evolution from a teenager who had never set foot in a classroom to a woman who earns a doctorate from Cambridge University is inspirational.

Much of the strength of the book lies, for me, in Westover’s exploration of her relationships with the various members of her dysfunctional family as the horizons of her life expand.

My Name Is Lucy Barton by Elizabeth Strout

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Strout is one of my all-time favourite writers and I could have picked any one of her books for this list. I’ve chosen “My Name Is Lucy Barton”, because her depiction of the complex relationship between a mother and daughter is so beautifully and delicately realised.

As Lucy’s mother sits by her daughter’s hospital bed, we learn as much about the two women and their shared history by what isn’t said as by what is.

The Flatshare by Beth O’Leary

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This is a delightful book that’s just been published in the UK and the US, and I know will be a huge hit. It’s the story of Tiffy and Leon, who share a flat but have never met; he works nightshifts and she works the usual daytime hours.

It’s light, funny and utterly heart-warming, with two of the most endearing central characters I’ve come across in a long time. If, as I do, you have periods when you feel your reading material has become a bit stodgy, this is like a palate-cleansing sorbet.

Normal People by Sally Rooney

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This has to be my favorite book of the last twelve months. The plot charts the relationship between Marianne and Connell, who first meet at school and later attend the same university. At its heart, it’s a romance, but not in the traditional sense.

Although Marianne and Connell clearly love each other, their insecurities and problems mean they struggle to find a way to be together. Rooney’s depiction of the characters’ thoughts and emotions feels, at times, painfully true-to-life and recognizable.

Stories are more than words on page — they’re memory, tradition, and love carried across generations. 

This Hispanic Heritage Month, we’re honoring the voices that keep culture alive. In A Cuban Girl’s Guide to Tea and Tomorrow by Laura Taylor Namey, a Cuban-American teen finds herself far from Miami, but never far from the heart of home:

“Our story, our people live on in these words. They grow between pages that are sized to fit between a reader’s hands. Small, yes, but somehow they hold us all.” 

Here’s to honoring the voices that remind us where we come from– and where we’re going.  Drop a 🇨🇺 if you've read A Cuban Girl's Guide to Tea and Tomorrow (or if it's on your TBR!)
Ali Kriegsman has a gift for making the art of reinvention feel accessible and empowering. ✨

On this week's episode of Bookmarked, the Reese's Book Club podcast, @AliKriegs chats with @DanielleRobay about her new psychological thriller 'The Raise', reinvention, and her bold, fun approach to self-publishing. 

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Hoping your week is filled with coffee and good reads! 📖☕ 

Our August Pick Once Upon a Time in Dollywood by @AshleyJordanWrites is one of those rare books that can lift your spirits and set a positive tone for the week ahead.
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These characters are taking us back! We're HUGE Judy Greer fans. ✨

This week on Bookmarked, the Reese's Book Club Podcast, we welcome the incredible @MissJudyGreer! @DanielleRobay and Judy chat her new Stephen King movie adaptation, @HelloSunshine's The Last Thing He Told Me, and of course, dream bookclubs.

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To the Moon and Back by @ElianaRamage truly shows us that the stars are in reach! ⭐ Grab this exclusive version, including a letter to YOU, an extra chapter, discussion questions, book club insights, and even a conversation with the author at the link in our bio.
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Loving this bookish insight from @MissJudyGreer! Books truly meet us where we are, and take us to where we've never been! 💙

This week on Bookmarked, the Reese's Book Club Podcast, we welcome the incomparable @MissJudyGreer! @DanielleRobay and Judy chat all things power of story, female friendships in media, the new Stephen King book-to-screen adaptation, and more!

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